Next Saturday, 18th March, the children that are preparing for their First Holy Communion will be meeting Jesus in the Sacrament of Reconciliation for the first time. They are doing their final preparation at this Sundays’ lesson. I don’t remember a thing about my first Confession! Yet throughout my life I recall times when it has been a time of great blessing and grace for me. I do know from experience as a priest, that a child’s first celebration can be an anxious time for mums and dads. This might be because they don’t necessarily have good memories of going to Confession. They naturally worry that it will go well for their children. Please remember our young children next week in your prayers as they experience this sacrament of healing, pardon and peace.
Lent is a fitting time to celebrate this sacrament. Pope Francis said last year : “A special sign of grace …. is the sacrament of penance, in which Christ invites us to acknowledge our sinfulness, to experience his mercy, and to receive the grace which can make us ever more effective signs of his reconciling love at work in our world.”
A writer who was an atheist and became a Catholic wrote “you get this chance to unload what’s been on your mind, in terms of what you’ve been doing wrong, or ways that you’ve messed up,” she said. “There’s something so cathartic about that. And, as Catholics, we believe you get real grace through that too.” She said there is something about verbalizing one’s shortcomings to another person that makes confession particularly beneficial. “Until you’ve done it, it’s hard even to imagine how powerful it is, to actually have to form the words and have another person hear them,” she said. “I think a lot of us don’t want to confess our most private sins.”
What we need to remember is that every time we go to Confession God embraces us. We encounter the overwhelming love of the Father. Confession might not be easy for me but it is not a chore. I encourage you this Lent to prepare to celebrate the Sacrament and experience Gods embrace.